In the divorce are participating not only parents but also children. And let the child is still small, going to school or go to a kindergarten or in school, he understands a lot. Divorce, in the first place, the impact on children. After all, they exist parents who love them, but what if those parents break up? How do the parent to divorce was painful for the child? If the parent of all may be destroyed in an instant, then the child's family - something of a discharge indivisible. The child is experiencing pain crisis. And this pain was not from the fact that with someone of the parents he would not live.

The pain from what he feels the negative experiences of the most expensive it people: moms and dads. One solution: to convince the child that everything will be fine. Nice to have a domeshnee animal to which the child is able to bind to. When one spouse left the house, you can not handle rough with his things. Do not tear the pictures at the baby. On the contrary, Put a photo, where he father or where he was with his mother, the kid felt that his mother or father still loves him.

This is especially important when your child is of the opposite sex to you. Indeed, often the daughter identifies with mother, son - with his father. And the main thing in this situation - to forgive for all the ex-spouse. Then the child will be easier, and very forgiving. Of course, it is easy to talk to the hand, people in this situation is very difficult, some helps to talk to someone, for example, with a psychologist. We must be able to forgive! And yet it may be advisable not to seek allies in the grievances of their children, remember that everything you say to them, may be reflected in its complex for life.